SACO – John C. Merry, Jr., 93, of Saco passed away peacefully from this life with his children by his side on September 8, 2022. John ‘Jack’ was born in Manchester, NH on June 10, 1929, the son of John C. Merry, Sr. and Gertrude Lydia (Fitzgerald) Merry.
Jack was the epitome of an optimist; he was always smiling and was known for his laughter; these traits continued to shine even in his final weeks. Jack had an effervescence for life and used that energy to uplift others – family, friends, colleagues and often complete strangers.
Jack was the eldest son and had three siblings, whom he treasured, Nancy Bergere of Doylestown, Pennsylvania, Virginia Toppi Marriner (predeceased) of Portland and David Merry (predeceased) of Marlboro, Connecticut.
Jack loved music, jazz being his favorite genre, and enjoyed playing the piano. Jack was a talented sportsman with style and finesse. He was an avid skier who taught his wife and children to downhill ski, straddling each child between his skis until they could go it alone. It was a good day when he was able to ski Tuckerman Ravine enjoying hiking and downhill on the open runs. He also enjoyed skating; enjoying hockey games on the backyard rink and refereeing one of his sons’ hockey games at the municipal rink. Truly whenever Jack could be outside in the cold and snow, he was happy – building “Olympic luge” tracks in the backyard for his children and creating snow sculptures and icicle stalagmites along his perfectly shoveled. Jack also enjoyed summer sports – tennis, golf, hiking and body surfing in the Maine ocean.
Jack’s faith was still there; he was an active member of the Catholic Church and a dedicated leader of Marriage Encounter.
Jack spent much of his childhood in South Portland. He graduated from Cheverus High School, Portland, in 1947. He went on to study mathematics at Fairfield University in Connecticut and was in the first class in 1951 alongside his best friend and eventual brother-in-law, Orland Shepherdess.
Jack met the love of his life, Mary Joan Dinolfo Merry (predeceased), when he was just 17 in Cape Elizabeth, the town they returned to in 1997. They were married on June 12, 1954 and shared an inspiring and loving story. marriage for 59 years.
Jack was most fulfilled when surrounded by his family, including his daughter, Nancy Charpentier of Portland and her fiancé Walter James Weed of Lincolnville, and his grandson Peter and his partner Jillian Connelly of Nashua, NH; son, John Merry III and daughter-in-law Jennifer of Kennebunkport and grandsons John IV and wife Caitlyn, great-grandchildren Finn and Emilia of Severna Park, Md., Charles and fiancée Megan Cadigan of Portland; son, Joseph Merry and daughter-in-law Regina (predeceased) of Arundel; daughter, Ann Boardman and son-in-law John of Kittery Point. Jack also loved the reunions and visits with all the nieces and nephews.
Jack has had an interesting and varied career as an entrepreneur whose work ethic is one that many want to emulate. His roles were primarily about connecting with individuals, something he valued and prided himself on being responsive to his clients’ needs. Whether as the owner and operator of Rochester Sand and Gravel, a seller of modular homes, a real estate agent at Kendall Real Estate or Maine Post and Beam in York, Maine, Jack has felt compelled to help his clients create and secure homes that would align financially and improve their overall lifestyle. Jack also had a very creative side, with photography being at the forefront. He created artistic photos and, as a “retirement job”, he became a wedding and family photographer. Jack’s life will be celebrated on October 8, 2022 at 11 a.m. at St. Joseph’s Church, 178 Elm St, Biddeford.
Arrangements are being made by Hope Memorial Chapel, 480 Elm St., Biddeford, ME 04005. For more information or to sign an online guestbook, please visit hopememorial.com.
To help a future artist tell their story through photography, donations to Maine Media College are appreciated. Scholarship donations in memory of John C Merry, Jr
can be sent to:
Maine Media College
Rockport, ME 04856 or at https://www.mainemedia.edu/life-at-mmwc/ alumni-network/make a donation/
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